I took my first quilt class this last summer. God answered my prayer of learning to quilt by putting me in a rent house we found online that happened to be next door to an expert quilter. I have been hoarding fabric for over 10 years and slowing buying supplies, unwilling to give up hope that someday I would make a quilt. It took me many months to get to know my neighbors. I was overwhelmed with the deployment, the move, and having no friends. I also decided to switch from the church we had first visited and joined when we arrived to one more suited to our family and beliefs. That was difficult but a blessing and what led to the opportunity to have the quilt class.
This is Mildred and I at the end of the second class. I gave this one to my oldest son who named it his "Blankie Quilt" and sleeps with it every night. He begged for weeks for it to be done.
It was a passing conversation with my new friends at church and Mildred happened to be free for the summer class. It was providential in so many ways and the blessings keep coming. First, I am absolutely hooked on quilting. "They" say you either get obsessed or forget about it altogether. Well I am obsessed. If I am not quilting I am looking at quilts, reading quilt blogs, pricing quilt tools online, and estimating how much cash I need to save up before I enter another fabric store. I have to very seriously talk to myself about budgets and not spending more than I should when I need to go into a fabric store. It goes something like this, "You need one thing, go fast, and get out. NO you can't buy anything else just get it and get out. You KNOW you will be so mad at yourself if you overspend...." This dialogue keeps going in my head as I make my way to the cash register.
This is Rita's quilt, a wonderful little baby quilt.
Second, I have some wonderful friends from quilt class that I would not have been able to get to know as well in another setting. I got to know Mildred 10 times better and I love that. She is wonderful and supportive. Always willing to come help me out of the mess I made of the quilt or the sewing machine. I have learned so much from her and love to have such a wonderful neighbor. She is also alone with her husband in a nursing home. I feel so blessed to be able to support her when she needs it or help her lift something if needed. Not that she needs it often. She is seventy something and always goes. I pray I will be that active at her age. I pray I can be that active at my age! She has been such a blessing from God.
I also was able to meet my new friend Jackie. We mainly email but that is all we have time for. Jackie has been a blessing from God in so many ways. We both have been dealing with deployed husbands and have small children at home. I have 3 little boys and she has 5 (3 girls, 2 boys). During this time we have both faced health issues that were daunting and still had to homeschool and maintain households. We both think we did poorly but God had a plan in there somewhere. Neither of us can see it yet but I know we both have faith that it all happened for God's glory. We are both praying that the deployment stuff is over soon, at least in the short term. In the mean time we email, a lot.
This is Regina and her cute quilt. She gave her's as a gift to her mother and she loved it.
Third, it gave me a distraction I desperately needed this last year. With DH gone I dreaded each night and I had something to occupy my mind. Getting your points to match is a fantastic way to distract yourself from the nagging loneliness.
This is me, my first born on his first Christmas, my mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. Aren't they lovely?
Finally, it has given me the inspiration to document my great grandmother's quilts and her story. She is still alive and mentally present to convey her story. I am so excited to find all her older quilts and preserve them for our future generations. She started quilting over 80 years ago when she was 14 years old. She lived through the depression and still loves to laugh. I won't be able to get to Texas until May and have already started preparations to speak with her. She doesn't do much but she is still able to live with her daughter and not in a nursing home. She is excited about the project as well and I can't wait to see her again.
Kenna,
ReplyDeleteCatching up on reading your blog. I have so enjoyed these recent posts. Thank you for the sweet comments about me. I feel the same about you. When I think of the quilting class, even though I could not finish the second one...I think of what a blessing your friendship has been. Jon has already promised to make time for me to have "girl" time when he gets home and settled...so be prepared for another B&N run with some coffee on the side!!!
By the way, your finished quilt is LOVELY!!!
Blessings,
Jackie
I am looking forward to more girl time! This time I will be prepared with a list to look for and then go home to get the books on Amazon. I need to put a book list on here as well. - Kenna
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